The gay "dating"/ hookup sites are looking more and more like a bad buffet menu Plenty of choices, but many are not what they advertise.It's the old bait and switch, you read a profile that reels you in with the promise of a "laid back" guy looking to be friends first and to see "what happens" What you get more often than not is either a creepy guy that is just looking for some sex or someone prostituting themselves and veiling it by asking if you're generous or some story about how they're rent is due and they'll do anything to make the money.The guy that I tend to attract is married and just looking for some side action.This is fine if you're up front about it, then I'll still tell you know but at least I'll have respect that you were honest.Another thing that humors me about this point is people's idea of what you should look like.Are you a thin build, swimmers build (I always picture Michael Phelps), average build, football build, etc.Are you a twink, a daddy, a bear, an otter (whatever the hell that is),etc.
Here's the best (worst) are you a safe sex only guy or are you an "anything goes" guy.Are there really people who are not safe?Why is this practice creeping back.Did we cure HIV that I did not know?What about Herpes, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, etc.Are we as a culture that stupid?Doesn't this mean your playing into the stereotype?Why don't we care about this?
It goes way beyond top and bottom as well.Add versatile to any position and you become flexible on it I guess.If you're purely versatile, you don't have a preference.
Recreational drugs, we won't even want to go there.Are you 420 friendly?Do you Rock Climb?Poppers?
For the same reason you would not order lobster in a diner, chances are, you are not going to find Mr.Right on Adam4Adam, Manhunt, etc.
Just call them what they are, sex sites.
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